I can't believe I'm having so much problems.

Why me? Why am I'm having so much problems with men. I care about my husband but its not the same anymore. We don't talk anymore. All we do is argue. When we are not arguing. He does his own thing and I do my own thing. When we do see each other and sit to have dinner. We are not talking at all. We are playing with our phones. It's been on going problems. He always ignoring the problems we have. To me the relationship has been going down hill since we got married. It's not working!!! I have feelings for someone else. I thought maybe I was only attractive to him and my mind was just playing games since I don't see my husband. I try to forget him and stop calling him cause he ignore last year. That really didn't work. The feelings are still there. I can't just make it go away. What am I going to do now? I'm stuck with this problems. I really don't know what to do. I can't tell anyone about this guy. I can't ask anyone not even my friends for opinion. I'm stuck in the hole by myself.